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March 5

Crushcrushcrush

zoelulu:

thenickmusicblog:

So I’ve had a hardcore crush on this girl for quiet awhile now.  We have been in the “talking” stage before and we hang out and make out and we always have a good time with each other.  We never date though.  I don’t really understand what’s going on.  She told me she was going to date me once and then she never did.  But we hung out again tonight and sat on the back of my tailgate and talked and made out some and just had some laughs.  I don’t understand what’s going on and its fucking killing me.

What’s a boy to do?

Oh..that’s such a difficult situation..I would just be up front & honest with her. Just get it out in the open & then you will know where you both stand. Good Luck!

is this really what goes on from the guys perspective throughout this situation? i might cry. the answer is very simple: take her out on a date. not hanging out and making out, but a proper date.